This Valentines ♥️

Valentines “This valentines buy the most beautiful flowers for your most beautiful self and carry it around wherever you go as a reminder of the unfathomable beauty you possess, take yourself out on a date, ask yourself these questions and get to know yourself in a way that nobody ever could, get high on chocolates, sweets and desserts (well skip that if you’re on a diet (or may be just have a cheat day!)), make some eternally boundless promises to yourself and live to live those promises every day, hour, minute and second, hug your soul and kiss your dreams & passion, and fall in an infinite, indestructible & irrevocable love with yourself. A love that never fades away, never grows out, never gives up & never let goes. A love that gives in way to so many other kinds of love by showing this world how you should be loved but continues to remain the love that is one of its kind.” –justnotrandom

124 thoughts on “This Valentines ♥️

  1. Hey Antra!..after a long time, i hope you’re doing good.
    Beautiful post, best on self love and it is very important to love yourself before showering on others.
    Keep writing! 🙂

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    1. Hey Prashant!!
      Glad you remember me! Yeah I’m good! Took a lot of time to get out of the regular life and stuff and do something that makes me happy (that is to write). And yes it is important to love yourself first beyond your mistakes, flaws and everything else! Thank you for reading! Keep smiling and loving yourself ✨ :))

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    1. Thank you Apri!!!
      Yeah I just realised I missed it (not skipped)!!! I think its because i was never fond of soft toys! When I was a kid I threw the soft toys in the air and broke my dolls! No I was not a psycho kid and I’m not even a psycho grown up 😀 !! I’m just better with people/things that have life into them 🌿☘️🌵

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  2. Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world…. beautifull lines…. 🙂

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      1. You’re right. I’ve not been very active because of my work schedule. But you must know that I’ve been following my favorites. Beautiful come back once again Antra. Keep writing. 🙂

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      2. Hey! Thank you so so much!! I’m really touched that you could spare some time out of your busy schedule to read my words. Really thank you and have a great Sunday!! 🌻 :))

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      1. Even aesthetically better (not many people would agree so it’s okay) , but I’ve seen a lot of interiors with cactuses 🌵🌵🌵 (small cute looking cactuses in a pot)

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      2. Then actually I would change the Rose day to cactus day! And it would be so cute to see people getting cute cactuses for their lovers! 🌵🌵🌵 😂
        And it would even last long

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      1. See I tell you there are two options- first you experience emotions like love (with another person keeping self love aside for a while) and stuff and second is to experience all that vicariously through movies and stuff! A lot of terrible stuff could happen to you if you go for the first one like you could get heartbroken or rejected or you could end up getting so obsessed with someone that there’s no escape but if you go for the second option then it is the characters of the movie who will experience all the terrible stuff and they are not even real I mean for a while they are but then they are not, so you keep yourself safe in that situation! 😂😂😂
        P.S.- if someone reading this particular comment who has found his/her true like TRUE love in this very lifetime then this comment is not for you and I’m so happy for you and and and good luck 🌵🌈

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      2. Hahahaha. I couldn’t agree more with you. Unfortunately I met with option one which resulted hell bad. Like hell hell bad…
        But fortunately, after reading your post and some motivational stuff, I am now looking forward to watch some movies. Love stories, no never… Not again.
        You seem very protective of you with this Love and all stuff😹😹

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      3. Haha yeah! I’ve been very stupid on a ‘not so rare’ basis, that now I can’t afford to be any more stupid or else the casualties resulting from that stupidity could explode my life and no no no I don’t want that! And I’m no Guinea pig and my life is no laboratory to experiment with! So let’s just go with the brain and heart that I’m certain of that’s mine! So for now let’s just go with self love and stuff! And if some other love and stuff pops up the window then will deal with it! 😂
        COME WHAT MAY

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      4. Self love concept.. New, pure and strong with no fear of being heartbroke. Keep loving yourself.
        Well, we all are Guinea pigs, sooner or later in our lives, we end up being experimented. Successful or not, pain is certain.
        Still, if not interested to open the window to feel the love breeze, just wipe it clean and enjoy what love does to get your attention. Either dances to some song of love or becomes the song itself. ❤❤❤

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      5. Wow! That was quite poetic! Well we learn from our experiences! And the best thing about going through the worst times in life is that it doesn’t get worse than that! It only gets better!
        So choose your movies carefully
        And keep an eye on the window 😀

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      6. The very first ray of morning is sufficient to bring the smile on my face. If not smile, then takes away the coldness with its warmth.
        But, the curve my lips are making in this cold winter night, I owe it to you. Thanks for the smile.
        P.S.- Not on any side of window. Just at the terrace, watching stars as they try to make this night a little more bright.

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      7. This has been equally smilesome to me (no that’s not a word no? But who says that we always need to follow the damn dictionary! At times we can be creative and create our own words 😀 )
        And a star studded sky is quite a romantic setting! So what, you be a maverick and show the world how self love can pave its way and blossom under a limitless & starlit sky ✨✨✨✨

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      8. If couldn’t be a constellation with a companion then be a star bright enough to attract all the attention and appreciation.
        Don’t do it for appreciation though, just for yourself. Make the sky fall on your feet, make the world know your worth, blossom, bloom and scent this world.🎆🎆

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      9. Waooow! Your poetic essence is just getting multiplied with every word! And it’s really good to read it! This day is working well for you and so will all other days if you stay determined to make it work that ways! And I’m sure you will!
        Enjoy the stars, the sky and yes the thoughts & ideas popping up in your mind meanwhile 🌈

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      10. Well, not the day but the evening.. But it’s certainly going good. Like we say na ‘one positive thought in the day is enough for a positive day’. Same is happening with me but in the evening. Thanks antra. This has been a nice conversation. Hope we exchange more in the coming days too.
        Just let this evil week of lovers pass away..😂😂😂
        Have a great night, let the words flow in your mind and heart as water makes its way from every creek and corner.😇😇

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      11. Hahaha yeah! And thank you too! Well enjoy the festivities of tomorrow with yourself or somebody else! 😀 Have good thoughts and good time!
        A very Goodnight! ✨✨✨

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  3. Awesome ! one of the best posts !
    According to me ‘Love is too strong a emotion to waste on a alien’. Love has deeper million meanings which are yet to discover…instead of a temporary person, one can give love to their close family or a person that suits into a close family. the thing of breakups, changing gf’s just freaks me out !
    Best way of Portraying love is to Love ourselves…getting obsessed with each and every thing we do ! Awesome post !

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    1. Hey Rutu!! Here’s a warm welcome to this place ☀️ and Thank you so so much for pouring these kind words in here!! I agree with everything you said about love and self love in your comment above! Thank you for adding depth and meaning to this post! Certainly means a lot 🌻 :))

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    1. Hey! Thank you so much! A very happy valentines to you too though it’s over but the love that you have for yourself and your people shall prevail! And thank you so much for nominating me! I will take it up soon! 🌻🌻🌻🌈🌈🌈 :))

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      1. If you ever make a post on some self-care tips/ or like a get ready with me let me know! I want to get into a morning love routine. Thanks hun. Hope this weekend is good to you too!

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      2. I believe humans are in ever need of positivity! We grow up and things get tough! But as long as we have good people around us and good thoughts in out mind this world is still a beautiful place to live in ♥️

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